24 of the best sex toys for couples to buy in 2025, approved by our sex writer

If you’re not new to the couples sex toy game, you’ll likely have gone through some trial and error to find a sex toy — or a position — that doesn’t generate slip and some awkward fumbles.

Luckily, in 2014 an MIT engineer and a sexologist joined forces to create the world’s first ever crowdfunded sex toy — that’s entirely hands-free for this reason.

With two wings to wrap around the vulva, the Eva is Dame’s magnum opus, and provides three vibration intensities directly to the clitoris, without getting in the way of your lover’s member or fingers, or a dildo — oh, and the added hand cramp.

The voyeurs and exhibitionists among us don’t get shouted out often enough, IMO, and not everyone likes to get in on the action. Whether you’re a fan of mutual masturbation or simply get pleasure from your loved one getting theirs (<3 generous legends), the Ruby Glow is the ideal toy to add to your collection.

Designed to be sat on, this vibrator is equipped with two nubs to ride and grind your vulva, perineum, and anus on to your heart’s content — all while your partner watches on in awe. We see this scratching an itch for those with a cuckold or threesome fantasy, or a great addition for those who experience pain during penetration.

It can even be used as a clit vibrator in positions where your sweet spot isn’t getting much action — like doggy or spooning. Ruby Ruby Ruby Ruby! Oooooo.

There’s no reason both partners can’t enjoy the sex toy party without being on top of one another — and Hot Octopuss has got the formula for shared vibrations down.

Whether you’re looking for something to act as foreplay to the main event — or a supplement — there’s something for both of you. While one of you enjoys the rumbly anal vibrations of the Plex with Flex, the other can stick their schlong in the Pulse Solo masturbator to send stimulation up their shaft.

Pass the remote control wrist watches over to one another for an unexpected turn, or take control of your own pace as you watch each other ascend to orgasmic bliss.

If there’s one thing lesbians are known to love, it’s dildos and carabiners. Biird really knew what it was doing here, because this toy covers both those bases. Made entirely from iridescent borosilicate (read: lab-grade) glass, this W-shaped dildo can penetrate two partners at once — acting as a strapless strap-on, if you will.

It comes in this gorg iridescent leather storage case, and if that wasn’t enough to make you *add to cart*, it also comes with a little keychain of fingers over a vulva in the colours of the lesbian flag — ideal for hanging from your carabiner, if you’re so inclined.

Something old, something new… You’ll likely have heard — if not tried several iterations — of the magic wand, a sex tech classic. This one comes set with 10 vibration modes, making it an ideal companion for powerful stimulation directly on your C-spot or shaft.

But, as Hitachi originally intended for the device when it was first invented in the late ’60s, these bobble-headed wands also make for great massage tools for a whole-body experience.

When used at the same time as the newer zeitgeisty Rose in this set, the combination of suction and vibration is enough to remind you of why the two of you fell in love in the first place. Talk about a power couple!

What’s better than one sex toy? Well, three sex toys of course! This box from Satisfyer is enough to keep you and your OH satisfied (see what we did there, eh?) no matter your mood.

Set with Double Joy, a U-shaped vibrator, for internal and external vibrations; Royal One, a vibrating cock ring; and Sexy Secret, a magnetic panty vibrator, it’s enough to keep you buzzing everywhere you go.

And, so your hands can roam free, all three toys can be controlled by the Satisfyer app, to ramp up your Os at the click of a button.

What could be better than watching your partner squirm in pleasure? Uhh... nothing.

If you’re partial to a spot of power play, one partner can take control of this love egg, dragging it over the other’s nipples, clitoris, and inner thigh before being popped inside the vagina.

Set with three vibration speeds and seven patterns, this blue babe would make a perfect partner to oral sex, as the giving partner ramps up the power using the remote control to watch their lover ascend to blended orgasm bliss.

Of course, it’s waterproof, so if you prefer to get your rocks off in splash mode you can. Love!

If you and your partner are looking for something a little higher tech, We-Vibe’s toys are a great choice. The We-Vibe Sync 2 is intended for wear during penetrative sex and is shaped for both G-Spot and clitoral stimulation.

It can be controlled via a wireless remote for easy use during sex and, for long-distance couples, it can also be controlled via an app on your phone — so you don’t have to resort to plain old manual mutual masturbation over FaceTime.

The rechargeable device is a sleek, comfortable couples toy that lets both partners enjoy vibrations and extra stimulation. It’s a bit on the pricier side but, as they say, you get what you pay for!

We love when a sex toy gives everything you need to know away in the name (let’s make sex tech accessible, people!). While one of you inserts the plug end into your butt, the other end can be twisted around to sit atop the clit or the shaft, for double stimulation and double the fun.

With just two slimline insertable inches, the plug is suitable for anal sex beginners, and, as with all the best sex toys, this can be used either alone or with a partner — because, PSA, it’s not just single people who can enjoy solo sessions. Just make sure you give it a good clean before sharing!

New to using sex toys for couples? We’d recommend this Lovehoney couples sex toy kit to get you started, complete with vibrators, cock rings, a butt plug, and anal beads.

With the selection of treats, it’s perfect for a long weekend away to explore the different sensations and toys that work for you as a couple.

The individual toys are affordable and great for experimentation, so you and your partner can keep exploring the favourites you’d want to upgrade in future.

If you and your partner are looking for a luxury sex toy, LELO is *the* brand to choose from.

The TIANI™ couples vibrator provides double pleasure with one arm that vibrates inside you for internal stimulation and another that vibrates against your clit. The outer arm aligns with your partner’s shaft to create powerful pleasure for you both.

There are eight vibration settings to choose from, and LELO’s SenseMotion technology enables you to increase the intensity with the remote control by just a flick of the wrist — so you’ll never need to interrupt the moment.

This teensy tiny butt plug is a good intro to anal stimulation. No matter who you’re having sex with, as long as everyone’s up for it, anal play can feel great.

If you’re interested, here’s a guide we made earlier delving into how you can approach anal play for the first time. If they have a prostate, it might be good to ask if they want to try for a P-spot orgasm.

As well as having a tapered base for easy, safe removal, this Rocks Off butt plug is textured for extra sensation and comes with a removable bullet vibrator, so you can up the ante with a little — or a lot — of vibration.

Another luxury toy brand, LOVENSE is a great choice for couples, especially if you’re looking to up the quality of a fledgling sex toy collection.

This app-controlled egg vibrator is one of Cosmo’s faves — just read our glowing review of it — and a brilliant long-distance sex toy for any couples looking to spice up their sex life together, even when they are physically apart.

Insert the egg for G-spot stimulation, while the tail provides rumbly vibrations against your clit. Then, play with the modes, patterns, views, and explore several ways of working the toy once you’re in the app. High tech sex!

Whether you’re a long distance couple looking to keep the good penetrative sex vibes going, or simply looking to inject some fun into your sex life, Clone A Willy is a gift that will have you both giggling.

Stick your schlong into the moulding powder to create its perfect replica — in your choice of purple, black, pink, or flesh colour — so your long distance lover can have something to remember you by when they’re feeling frisky.

It even comes with a vibrator, for that added something, but can also be used au naturel, if that’s more your style. If you’ve ever wanted to be penetrated by your own member, now’s your time…

This vibrating cock ring is from one of our fave sex toy brands, TENGA, who make super high tech toys for people with penises.

Designed for extra clit contact during penetrative sex, the SVR Smart Vibe also boasts five speeds and two patterns of vibration to explore with a simple click of a button.

The extra stretch in the ring also accommodates most sizes — just remember to use plenty of water-based lube, go slow, and don’t keep it on for too long.

If you’re new to couples toys — or if you just want to try something different — finger vibrators are an affordable choice that also happen to be brilliant and super easy to use.

All you do is slide them onto yours or your partner’s finger and use them to target vibrations at the clit. Fingering just got a major revamp.

This one (which is for external use only) has three speeds and seven different patterns and is fully submersible. Apply a little water-based lube before you get going, and then... enjoy!

This remote-controlled prostate massager from LELO has two motors at the base and tip for double the fun, and has six vibration settings, ranging from a delicate tease to an intense pulse.

It’s one of our fave sex toys for anyone with a P-Spot, hands down. Just be sure you’ve properly prepared for anal sex before diving in with this one, because as a beginner, it can be a unique experience having your prostate stimulated for the first time.

The HUGO 2 is admittedly on the more expensive side of things, so if you haven’t experimented with anal before, you might want to dip your toes in with a more affordable toy before advancing to this one.

This innovative, double-ended, strapless strap-on dildo vibrator is a piece of seriously well-designed tech. Bringing together G-spot stimulation, Rampant Rabbit vibrating ears, and eight inches of insertable dildo length, this toy is designed to be worn by women and people with vulvas.

Held in place by the wearer’s vagina muscles as they grip around the shorter penetrative end, the longer penetrative end works amazingly for pegging or a bit of vulva-on-vulva action.

Hint: you’ll want to make sure you’ve done your kegels before inserting this one...

The SONA 2 suction toy from LELO delivers some spine-tingling clitoral stimulation and has all our practical requirements ticked off: whisper-quiet and USB rechargeable. Ideal for solo play or to give a partnered session a fun twist...

Feathery soft silicone contributes to its luxe feeling (and matching price tag). Extremely powerful and intense, it’s a gateway to ultimate pleasure.

It comes with 12 different settings and can be fully submerged — so light some candles and take a steamy dip together.