Sex toys for men and the best male sex toys for people with penises and prostates

Is tech your turn-on? Then great news: we’ve found the toy for you.

This masturbation sleeve from LELO is seriously hi-tech, with eight built in vibration modes, and an extra six unlocked by downloading the app.

Plus, the responsive sensors offer performance feedback on your speed and stamina, while building personalised stamina training and kegel exercises to help you last longer. We love when toys are all about longevity!

It’s also made from super soft silicone for a luxe feel and it’s totally waterproof, making it ideal for experimenting with in the shower or bath.

If you’re looking for a luxury, super powerful cock ring, this is one of the best.

LELO’s Tor 3 is made from super nice silicone and has eight vibration speeds and patterns to enjoy. It’s perfect for solo wanking or for partnered sex, as it doesn’t just vibrate against the shaft but also against your partner’s body while you’re having sex.

Its sleek, chic design is also a serious winner, and will win you points with any sex toy nerds who may happen across your bedside drawer.

In case you were wondering: enjoying anal stimulation as someone with a prostate does not (repeat: not) make you gay. Unless you literally are gay, then that’s another story.

Either way, more people should embrace prostate stimulation, and sex toys are a great way to do that without a partner having to stick their finger or penis inside you.

This flicker from Bellesa is equipped with four patterns and three speeds of its ‘thumping’ technology, which taps directly against the P-spot, while the shaft vibrates, to tease you towards an anal orgasm.

It even comes with a remote control, to make it easier to control the vibes when playing solo — or to dabble in a spot of power play by handing control over to your partner. Yum.

Before you’ve ever had sex, some sex words seem to just absorb into your brain.

Fleshlight is one of them; probs thanks to the number of casual jokes made about male masturbation at school, but we also have to shout out the fact that this brand is so iconic that it essentially changed the game for penis pleasure. So it’s no surprise everyone has heard of it!

This collab with Lovehoney is totally transparent (so you get to see exactly what’s going on down there, to add some excitement to the mix) and, thanks to the brand’s textured superskin material, feels prettyyyy close to the sucking sensation of oral sex.

We’ll leave you to suck it and see for yourself!

If you and your partner loves the feeling of being blown, a masturbator that mimics oral sex is a really good shout.

This Blowmotion sex toy has a three-inch interior canal that you slip the shaft into and that warms to 40°C, so it feels like an IRL mouth. You can choose from six vibration patterns and three intensities.

And it’s not just bells and whistles, it’s also super practical. It boasts a compact size, is USB rechargeable, *and* has a travel lock. A great all-rounder.

Dreaming of a night with your fave porn performer? This masturbator from Fleshlight not only looks like Riley Reid’s downstairs, but thanks again to the brand’s signature superskin silicone, feels like her, too.

To get as close to the real feeling (or at least as close as you’ll ever get to Reid, we imagine), pop the inner sleeve in a bowl of warm water and slather your member in a generous lather of water-based lube before use.

And, if you prefer a lover who feels like she has been working on her kegels (i.e. can tense hard as hell), the cap can even be twisted to increase the suction.

We’ll never stop going on about how much we love LELO: the super luxe, super technologically advanced sex toy brand. And the HUGO 2 is no exception.

This is the king of anal vibrators, seriously, it’s worth spending a little more if you’re into prostate orgasms. It’s mid-sized, so you don’t have to be an absolute pro to use it, and it responds to your movements, with movement-activated vibrations. How cool is that?!

It’s also remote-controlled, meaning it’s perfect for hands-free fun or handing over control to a partner.

You’ve probably heard of Fleshlights — the most well-known brand of masturbation sleeves. But TENGA is the fancy, modern version from Japan.

Inside the Onacup are super soft textures that can be used to give your partner the best hand job of their lives. Plus, you can come inside the tube and then wash it out. Mess-free.

The toy also comes pre-lubricated, so you don’t even have to worry about stocking up on lubricant. A dream!

Clit crew: if you’ve experienced the sensual suction of the Rose sex toy, it’s only fair your schlonged S/O has a taste of the same.

Loaded with eight Pleasure Air Technology (you know it: the very same as the Womanizer and the Rose) intensities, this Arcwave sends oral-style stimulation straight to the frenulum, without ever having to make direct contact with you.

And, so your flatmates aren’t clued up on your solo sesh schedule, its Smart Silence technology means the toy will turn off immediately once you remove your member. Way to save battery!

Look, we’re not going to lie to you: the one downside (literally sometimes the only downside) of splashing out on a pricier sex toy is that you might get bored of the same exact stimulation every time you use it.

Of course, there are ways around that — you can switch up positions and use it in tandem with fingers, another sex toy (if you have one) or with a partner — but sometimes a toy that has multiple types of stimulation is the solution if you’re a restless romper.

If we’ve got you pinned down (ahem), it’s your lucky day: this masturbator from Arcwave has not one, but two entrances — each with different sizes and grips — to slip ‘n slide your way to climax.

Sex! Tech! Is! So! Cool! Or, at least we think so. This Kiiroo masturbator has us feeling pretty elated to witness the industry develop, and we don’t think the brand is far off the mark by calling it “the smartest automatic male masturbator in the world.”

Designed to give your wrist a break, the Keon is totally hands-free, and can be balanced on any surface, or attached to a table clamp, pillow, or neck strap, to keep it stable as you thrust — or it thrusts.

You can even customise the inside, by adding any of the brand’s Feel Strokers (which come in a range of colours, textures, and imitation shapes).

Once it’s switched on, Keon is also made to be totally interactive, as it can be synced with erotic content, cam performers, or other Kiiroo toys so you can your partner can solo fuck… but, like, together.

Hot Octopuss’ Pulse is a super cool, techy toy for penises. Instead of vibrating, it it delivers “high amplitude oscillations”, which are a medical technology. I know right, that’s some sci-fi sh*t right there.

With a splash of lube, you can slip the penis inside and then control the oscillations. The penis doesn’t even need to be erect to use (and enjoy) the toy, so it’s great for people with erectile dysfunction, too.

Our tip? This toy is seriously good if you want to experiment with edging.

The TENGA egg is one of our fave sex toys out there, so much so that we wrote a whole article about it.

Long story short, it’s a super-stretchy masturbator for men and anyone with a penis, and has lots of amazing inner textures for extra stimulation.

It’s basically the most luxury wank ever... but there’s one drawback. These toys are single-use, so it’ll break your heart to have to bin them after they’ve given you such a good time.

This adorable beginners butt plug from Rocks Off is a great first vibrating anal toy for anyone wanting to explore anal play.

It’s quite small so easy to insert (with lots of lube), has seven vibration and pattern settings, and is waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower.

The graduated beads begin at 2 inches in girth and grow to just 3.75 inches meaning it’s a perfect toy for beginners.